Do I invite my best buddy (who’s not talking to me) to my daughter’s birthday party?
Question by Book_worm: Do I invite my best friend (who's not talking to me) to my daughter's birthday party?
I'm 23 years old, and I have a 10 1/2 months old daughter. Her 1st birthday is coming up, and this is very important to me... Do I invite my best friend and her 2 year old daughter? She is not talking to me because.... here's the story:
She's started college in January and asked me to let her borrow my $ 200 graphing calculator. I did, but I told her the price, and to take care of it, and that I was going to need it for the summer semester, because I'm going back to school. So In May, I told her I was going to need it by the beginning of June... She wasn't using it, but still didn't give it to me. I asked her many times in the course of 3 weeks. Then, she texted 3 days before class started and said she had lost. That she didnt have $ 200, but that she was gonna "ask her dad or something". I told her, ok. Do that, cuz I need it. Then I asked her the day before class started and she said she didnt have it. I said "well, you could use your financial aid money, and if you find the calc, you can keep it, since you'll need it". She said no. That IF she bought me one it would be a used one. I said "you're very irresponsible. I trusted you would keep it safe". That was it. She got me a calculator (used and written on), and I haven't heard from her since then (almost 2 months). She had me listed as a sister on facebook, and took me off it (my friend told me) and I cant see her wall (I can see pics, info, etc. but not the wall). She didnt delete me, just bloked me. I'm not mad at her for losing my calc. All I said was that she was irresponsible, which is true. She has stoped talking to me before, cuz she wants me to be the one to look for her, but, since I did nothing wrong, I dont see why I would have to apologize.....
Now, back to my question, I was thinking I should send her an invitation in the mail, and maybe that would fix things... I really want her daughter to be there. She's like my niece. I was even there when she was born (in the labor room). My husband said I shouldn't invite her.
Best answer:
Answer by melissa
i think she's being very immature. I would send and invitation to her, because her daughter didnt do anything wrong and it also shows that you're the bigger person. I wouldn't want to be friends with a person like that though.
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> I really want her daughter to be there
Then what’s the dilemma? Your friend sounds like a spoiled, snooty little princess who doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and expects everyone to cater to her (e.g. expecting you to make the first move toward reparation when you’re not at any fault)… maybe it’s time to do some soul searching and seriously reevaluate the “friendship” if she’s going to act like that to you; but if you really want her daughter there, then send the invite. [Personally, I'd send it in her daughter's name, too.] Good friends weather any storm, so if it’s meant to be, she’ll be there.