Question by : What should I do? Girl issues?
I'm gonna make this as short as possible.

A week ago a girl (Lacie) started talking to me on facebook, and we hit it off, later we exchanged numbers, and we text'd the rest of the day (Wednesday) and the next day she was like "We needa hang out" I was already gonna ask her this, but wanted to wait a bit longer before asking her out on a date, just to get to know her a bit more, but anyways I agreed, and was very excited about it, and so was she.

So we decided to make the date on Friday, just two days after we started talking, as I talked to her a bit more I found out she had to go to her uncles funeral on that Friday, and that she had added me on Facebook awhile back, and has had a crush on me, and was always scared to even speak to me. But as we txt'd more she would use smiley faces non-stop, txt me constantly, and would send me pictures of her smiling, and saying how happy she was that we were talking.

Anyways as the date went on, we got along great, she flirted the whole time, kept telling me things we need to do on other dates, talked non-stop had a good time, and at the end she told me how it was the best Friday night/Date she's ever been on, so as I walked her to the door, I decided to just give her a hug, didn't wanna rush anything by a kiss, and right before I got back into my car she yells "Text me when you get back home, so I know you made it home safe." Cause I live 40 minutes away.

Anyways I txt'd her once I got home, and we talked for a min. and she told me "Text me as soon as you wake up!" So I do just that, and she didn't really talk much, she said (I'm having a bad day) So I told her I'd text her later, and I did, and once again she wasn't saying much, so this was at about 6 P.M. so I just decided not to text till she did, she texts me the next day (Sunday) and says "Sorry about yesterday I was having a bad day." So I tried to comfort her and tell her it was all good, and asked her for a second date, and she agreed to it, with many smiley faces.

But after that she stopped talking to me again, (About 1P.M.) so I hit up my Friend Ashley, who is also Lacie's best friend, to ask her if Lacie has talked much to her, and Ashley said "No, she hasn't, something seems to be wrong, idk what it's from, she had her uncles funeral, shes graduating from school, and having some family problems, so just let her know that you are there for her, and that'll you do whatever it takes to make her happy."

So I sent her a email, doing as Ashley said, and she sent me a text saying "Thank you so much for the email, you are sooo sweet!:):):):)" and once again she stopped texting me after that.

So now to today (Monday) I have noticed she hasn't done anything on facebook except poke me and comment on my status's, so I texted Ashley (Lacies friend) and asked if Lacie has said much to her, and she said "Nope, not really, she only seems to be talking to you but just a lil' bit, she's kinda shut everyone down a bit." So I tried sending her a txt and didn't get a reply ha figures.

Then later on FB she finally posted on her wall, that she went on another date with another guy, and yes I realize she ain't tied down, but at the same time, I just don't know if she led me on to a point, or what I should do, is she just stressed from all that has gone on, orrrrrr lol I just don't know...

So any advice as to what to do, or what you believe I did wrong would be great! Cause I'm completely lost at this point, and once again I'm sorry for the novel. ha
**Also I'm guessing it would be best to follow through with the second date even though she went on a date with another guy today, and since she hasn't spoke much to me as of late? Yeah I like her quite a bit actually, it's been awhile where a girl has been on my mind non-stop.

The only thing I'm really concerned about me continuing to try and talk to her is, I don't wanna over do it and make it seem like I'm a creep, or something to that extent, I'm not sure where to draw the lines, I'm concerned she is having a troubling time, and I wanna help, but I don't wanna be a bother also...**

Best answer:

Answer by Jarrod
You haven't done anything wrong, you've played all the right cards and its up to her to sort herself out. She's obviously confused at the moment so keep trying to text her and communicate with her, she might just be feeling confused.

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