Why am I so scared to have youngsters? My marriage depends on it….please assist!?
Saturday, January 28th, 2012 at
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Well at least you told him from the beginning that you didnt want kids. So he cant be that suprised about it.
Honestly you have waited soooo long it will be a blessing for you to still be able to conceive without trying extremely hard and maybe even having to use In vitro.
Its up to him to stick around to see if your able to conceive but if not thats his right! He has the right to live the life he wants to live just like you have the right to not have children.
If he leaves then it wasn’t meant to be. At your age if you decide to start dating again it will be a lot easier for you because most men around that age already have children and dont want anymore.
IF YOU DONT WANT CHILDREN DO NOT HAVE THEM! THEY ARE A LIFE LONG COMMITMENT AND FROM THE SOUNDS OF IT I DONT THINK YOU WILL HAVE THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE NEEDED FOR RAISING A CHILD BECAUSE YOU NEVER WANTED IT.
Don’t have child with an angry person. It will just get worse. Let him go.
Having kids does not automatically fix marital problems, tell him that you will seriously consider having children after therapies, you owe it to yourself and your potential children. Hopefully your husband will take his therapy seriously and you’ll live happily ever after.
Trick someone and get pregnant. You think a child will help you two who are constantly fighting?
How is a baby going to bring you two together. If he is mean to you he will be mean to the child.
A baby needs a nurturing loving and wholesome family. I don’t think a child will do the ‘trick’
Sounds like you two are very immature and have past issues. A passive mom is not a happy mom.
If you put your career first, your baby second, and husband third, it’s not going to work.
Hopefully in therapy you will find where your issues are and how your past is creeping into your future of pain and resentment.
Talk to your husband. Let him say what he has to say. Stop interrupting him. Get things out in the open however painful.
You can always adopt. There are plenty of children needing good parents.
First thing is that you have to be one.
Hope this helps…take care:)
This guy sounds like an abusive controlling jerk.
Do NOT have a baby with him.
Get a divorce.
You’re delaying the inevitable. Now’s your chance. Move on. You might want a kid, but not with this guy. He’s bad news and you know it. End the misery and heartache for goodness sake.
I would strongly STRONGLY recommend you read this:
http://www.capsulecorp.org/custody
or alternatively:
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